A Conversation That Sparked Reflection
Yesterday, I had a heartfelt conversation with a close friend about something truly beautiful: God’s love. We were in awe of how God, in His mercy and grace, chooses to work through us—even though we often feel unworthy and unqualified. And yet, He still calls us to participate in His divine mission.
“But God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong.”
—1 Corinthians 1:27
When God calls us, He qualifies us. Not by our merit, but by His love and purpose. But in that conversation, we touched on something deeper—something that made me pause and reflect.
Our Role: Plant the Seed, Trust the Spirit
As followers of Christ, we often feel responsible for guiding new believers. But the truth is, our primary role is to plant the seed of faith. After that, it’s not our job to micromanage their journey. It's the Holy Spirit who nurtures, convicts, and grows their relationship with Jesus.
“I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God has been making it grow.”
—1 Corinthians 3:6
Too often, we remain in the picture long after we’ve made the introduction to Christ. We try to dictate how new believers should talk, behave, dress, or worship. In doing so, we risk obstructing the most important relationship of all—their personal, intimate walk with Jesus.
The Analogy: A Friend in Love
Imagine introducing two friends who begin to fall in love. Would you attend every date? Correct their conversations? Choose their outfits? That would be absurd. Yet, spiritually, we sometimes do this when someone begins their relationship with Christ.
We must resist the urge to overstep. Instead of teaching them how to behave for Jesus, let Jesus teach them Himself. He sees the heart. He knows the journey. And He never judges the way humans do.
“The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”
—1 Samuel 16:7
Let the Holy Spirit Lead
When we step out of the way and let the Holy Spirit do what only He can do, something powerful happens. That new believer begins to fall in love with Jesus, not with a church system or a spiritual mentor. Their faith becomes rooted in the Savior—not in us.
“But when he, the Spirit of truth, comes, he will guide you into all the truth.”
—John 16:13
Yes, knowledge, doctrine, and prophecy have value. But the foundation of faith is love—God’s love for us, and our love for Him.
“‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment.”
—Matthew 22:37-38
Trust God’s Process
Let’s be faithful in planting the seed. Let’s be patient in stepping back. And let’s be confident in this: God knows how to grow His children. His Spirit will lead, teach, convict, and transform—just like He’s done with us.
So to every believer sharing their faith: do so in love, and then trust in the One who brings the growth.
Let the love grow. 🌱
Written by Desert Witness
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